Healing the Silent Wounds: Breaking Free from Resentment When Words Remain Unsaid

The journey of Twin Flames is often filled with intense emotions and deep connection. However, it can become challenging when one Twin Flame is unwilling or unable to open up about their true feelings. The resulting resentment and heartache can seem overwhelming, but it’s essential to remember that every single thing your Twin Flame does or doesn’t do serves you both in healing so you can grow into more love together. In this article, we will explore what is happening to help you release resentment and heartache and feel inner peace on your Twin Flame journey.

First and foremost your Twin Flame is not your cushy supportive pillow. They are your mirror. Sometimes the mirror can feel very soft and supportive. At other times the mirror can feel harsh and unyeilding.

The first key to Harmonious Twin Flame Union is honesty. Honesty with yourself is required before you can be honest with another. If your Twin Flame is refusing to share their honest feelings with you, then examine the mirror. Are you being honest with yourself about yourself or your true feelings? Your feelings about yourself? Do you love your Twin Flame deeply but find yourself daydreaming someone easier comes along, only to realize no one else could ever make you happier. So you feel trapped by your deep love and stuck with your beloved hard ass Twin Flame who refuses to love you the way you wish to be loved and the way they wish to love you.

Might you be refusing to love yourself in some way?

All you really want is for your Twin Flame to come to you and tell you they love you and want to do the work of manifesting your life together. Where you actually talk about it instead of relying on telepathy and reading between the lines of every micro movement they make in your presence. Deciphering your existence together is exhausting without direct communication.

You are not alone.

You can create a reality where you and your Twin Flame talk about the challenges you each face in your family or community or professional careers or in your own relationship with each other. You can create a reality where you face each of your challenges together both physically and internally.

So how do we heal this conundrum and escape the land of your one true love telling you they are not interested in a conversation with you nor relationship when so many other little things they say and do scream that they feel you and love you too?

Mirror Exercise.

Start by acknowledging and accepting your emotions. It’s natural to feel hurt and frustrated when your Twin Flame won’t share their true feelings. Give yourself permission to feel and process these emotions without judgment.

Give yourself permission to love yourself unconditionally and accept yourself and the situation you find yourself facing. Take your power back and take responsibility for your feelings and your healing.

You have the power to give yourself everything you need to feel loved and cherished and spoken for. Spoken to.

Talk to yourself with loving words of encouragement and commitment fortified with the choice to honor yourself and choose yourself and choose love at every turn. Double down on your choice to stay with yourself no matter what. To never abandon yourself or sacrifice yourself. You have the power to make yourself happy.

Choose to forgive everything that has happened up until now. Forgive yourself. Forgive your Twin Flame. Choose to let go of all resentment between you. After all, every single thing each of you has done contributed to each other’s healing of your shared consciousness. Decide to never take things personally, because your Twin Flame is always One with you. Always you looking back at yourself. Make peace with yourself. Make peace with your own power to create your reality with God.

Never forget the true order of operations in your Twin Flame journey: God, then You, then your Twin Flame, THEN everyone else. You never have to sacrifice your Twin Flame relationship in order to be accepted by your Gurus or your family or your community. True love in all places accepts you for who you truly are. Everyone aligned with love will align with you and your True Twin Flame. Because all align to love and to God first and foremost. You and your one true love are accepted. You are loved. You are powerful. You are divine. It is safe to say it out loud. It is safe to say it together.

Keep loving yourself until you feel fully peaceful. Until you can bring yourself home. You ALWAYS have the power to give yourself exactly the love you need in exactly the way you need it. Your true Twin Flame will always meet you there in your love. And you never have to be in Perfect Union before you can live your life together with your Twin Flame.